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Thursday, October 30, 2008

Teen Anxiety Demands Attention

Everyone experiences occasional anxiety. It causes us to look both ways before crossing the street, and to be careful (hopefully) with our words when we're upset. Teenagers feel some anxiety, too, and that's OK - but high levels of this emotion require attention.
"If your child is experiencing undue anxiety, there are several things you can do to help. Good, basic self-care - as in making sure your child eats real food and is getting enough rest and exercise - can help to keep your kid on a level plane."
Parents can help their child cope with anxiety by making sure that his basic needs are met. Help him eat well, and make sure that he is getting plenty of rest and adequate amounts of exercise. If a child's anxiety level seems disproportionate to the stresses in his life, consider having him talk with a professional counselor. Counseling can be an important tool in helping a child learn how to address and cope with stress. Source: Poughkeepsie Journal (NY)

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Friday, October 10, 2008

MTV To Air "Sex ...With Mom and Dad"

It's a title sure to capture the attention of any teen that sees the ad. "Sex... With Mom and Dad" is the name of a new show on MTV feature Dr. Drew Pinsky.
"...the half-hour long show will feature Celebrity Rehab's Dr. Drew, who will discuss certain tips and guidelines when it comes to parent-children dialogue involving teens and topics such as sex, dating and relationships."
The show will also cover specific issues related to sexual promiscuity, homosexuality, and other topics. The show was scheduled to premiere on September 29. Source: BuddyTV

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Friday, September 5, 2008

Parenting Matters in Middle School

When kids are transitioning into middle school, they need their parents more than ever. Grade school is relatively easy, but in middle school kids are faced with cliques and increased social pressure to fit in.
"Parents can help pave the way to teenagerhood by maintaining communications with their children, being warm and nurturing, and knowing where their kids are and who their friends are..."
Studies have shown that girls who have a warm, nurturing mom were less likely to have problems in middle school and that good, consistent communication helped middle school students manage their fears and reduce their social aggression toward other students. Source: U.S. News

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Sunday, June 15, 2008

State Senate to Recognize Mom Who Works with Troubled Teens

This week, the New York state Senate will present Penny Jennings with the 2008 New York State Woman of Distinction award. The award was created in 1998 to honor New York women whose personal achievements and/or acts of service were an example to others.
"Jennings, a single mom for many years, started A.C.T. Inc. - Adults Caring for Teens - in 2006 to provide mentoring to youth who had had a brush with the law, were in troubled at school or were at loose ends and needed a mentor and a role model."
A.C.T. currently provides mentoring to 26 boys and girls, and beginning July 1 it will provide services to 15 additional students. Jennings earned a master's degree in social policy, and is now pursuing a doctorate in law and policy. Source: The Journal News

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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Parents Key to Curbing Gang Activity

In the Columbia Urban League's "State of Black South Carolina," Dr. Kenneth Campbell tells of his visit to a group discussion with 20 young men in an intervention program. The day's topic was "friends."
"When the facilitator asks, 'How many of you have friends,' the young men respond with silence - a deafening silence for this energetic group. Some look down, some look bewildered..."
This same group expressed disappointment in their parents' lack of involvement in their lives. Dr. Campbell goes on to cite a 2002 survey in which young people were asked why kids join gangs. Most said kids were looking for a place to belong because they didn't have a good family or home life. Read more at www.topix.net.

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Monday, December 17, 2007

Absent Parents can Cause Violent Kids

Nineteen-year-old Robert Hawkins, who opened fire in an Omaha, Nebraska mall this week, spent most of his life moving and out of the foster care system. Psychologist warn that a lack of parental involvement in a child's life can make a child feel like he has no one to turn to, and affects how teens respond to negative attention. A lack of healthy emotional bonding with a parent hinders a child's ability to view people as more than just objects.
"[Psychologist Dr. Louis] Mortillaro said some warning signs for potential violent outbursts in children include feelings of not fitting in, kids who are teased constantly, those who are sent to the office for harming classmates or animals and those who are not afraid to act on their violent tendencies"
Parents are encouraged to develop appropriate, healthy emotional bonds with their kids, even if the parents are separated, divorced or never married at all.

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Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Support Systems Sway Gangs

People who are most susceptible to gang influence are those who have little or no structure or family support. Consequently, community services which provide some of that support not only meet immediate needs, but help curb the influence of gangs.
"During its first year, the Trinity Nursing Center for Infant Health saw 600 babies whose parents were court-ordered to bring them there for care. But from that staggering number came some good: the ability to mentor troubled teen mothers."
Many of the moms wanted to get away from the gang exposure that they encounter daily in their neighborhoods. They were also seeking affirmation and acceptance, which they found at the nursing center.

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Monday, August 27, 2007

Too Many Teenagers, Too Few Parents, Not Enough to do

The Poconos, in Northern Pennsylvania, has experienced a surge in crimes committed by young people. Between 1990 and 2005, the number of new criminal cases against adolescents increased from 176 to 640 - all of them first-time offenders.
"'Gang activity is on the rise. It is here, and we will be dealing with it for many years,' [Monroe County's Chief Probation Officer Steve] Houloose said. His office has worked with Pocono kids who are admitted members of the Bloods, Crips, Latin Kings and various branches of those gangs."
Houloose and others point to a lack of parental supervision - caused by long commutes which force parents to leave early in the morning and not return until late at night, and an influx of kids from urban communities who struggle to find appropriate activities to keep them busy. Read more at PoconoRecord.com.

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Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Students Share Opinions on Criminals

Students from Clinton Middle School in Utica, New York, recently spent two weeks learning about the law and criminal behavior. The students also sat in on court room proceedings in Onieda County Criminal Court. They were then asked to give their opinions on why some young people turn to crime.
"The path to criminal behavior might begin with a bad childhood. If a child is raised in a community that is poor and the only people there to look up to are drug dealers or criminals, this sets an image for the child."
Most of the students agreed that an abusive or neglectful home life and poverty are two possible causes. They also agreed that it's important to get those kids away from abusive or neglectful parents, or have the parents seek counseling, and help them get the education and resources they need for a better life. Read more at UticaOD.com.

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Monday, August 13, 2007

Talk to Kids about Risky Behavior

Most young people feel like they're invincible. But most also know the truth - that they're not. Still, some engage in risky and sometimes life-threatening behavior because they have little sense of their own mortality. The untimely death of a 14-year-old boy in Ohio has prompted warnings about risky behavior from some experts.
"[Dr. Steve] Liptak said it is important for parents to know their children and be more watchful of those they have found to be risk-takers. A working relationship with the child - knowing what they are doing and where they are going, not interrogating them - is even more important for known risk-takers, he said."
Dr. Bob Barcus also suggests that parents be honest with their teens about what can realistically happen when people take extreme risks. Read more at DaytonDailyNews.com.

If your child in engaging in risky behaviors, such as teen drug use, visit Adolescent-Substance-Abuse.com for ways you can help.

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Thursday, May 10, 2007

Father's Presence Weighs Heavily

The new movie 'Daddy's Little Girls' tells the story of a father who fights for shared custody of his daughters with his ex-wife. The movie brings to the forefront an important fact that's often overlooked - a father's involvement has dramatic effects in his kids' lives.

"A just-released Boston College study found that when nonresident fathers are involved in their adolescent children's lives, the incidence of substance abuse, violence, crime, and truancy decreases markedly... The study also found that when teens begin to slide towards delinquency, nonresident fathers increase their involvement in response. The researchers found such involvement to be effective - the impact of father involvement was the greatest on the kids who had previously been the most troubled."


Studies have also determined that father involvement is a greater predictor of juvenile crime than the family's socio-economic status. Read more at PostChronicle.com.

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