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Support, Compassion Essential for Depressed Teens

Recent studies have found that, unfortunately, teen depression is on the rise. Parents and other caregivers, in their attempts to help, sometimes inadvertently say things that are unhelpful or downright hurtful.

“What to say: You’re not alone in this. What NOT to say: There’s always someone worse off than you are. What to say: You are important to me. What NOT to say: No one ever said that life was fair. What to say: I can’t really understand what you are feeling, but I can offer my compassion. What NOT to say: Believe me, I know how you feel. I was depressed once…” [Source: Health.com]

People who struggle with depression don’t need to know that we understand as much as they need to know that we love them and will be there for them whether we understand or not. We need to remember that there are no simple solutions (or causes) for depression.


 

Labels: depression

Posted By: Stefanie Hamilton

Comments:

Kensington on 10/4/2010
When I was depressed, it was very helpful to hear from my parents that they cared. While they might not have understood what I was feeling, it was beneficial to know they wanted to help. Reaching out to professionals for answers is often the answer, as therapy and possibly meds can help someone level the playing field of their emotions and deal with what's going on.