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Friday, July 31, 2009

Should You Worry About Your Teen's Lack of a Social Life?

It's a dichotomy unique to raising a teenager: You don't want your child out drinking and partying, but if he has fewer friends and stays home a lot, you worry that he’s anti-social and unhappy.

What's a parent to do with the teenager who likes staying home on a Friday night and isn't part of the "in crowd"?
You may want to fix your teenage child, but you also need to consider that he may not need fixing. ...

Were your son totally friendless, spending all his time alone in his room playing online video games, if he constantly seemed depressed or irritable -- then you would definitely want to intervene. (Source: The Globe and Mail)
Some kids are just more introverted. They like having a few close friends. They like being home. And while those concepts may run counter to our beliefs about teenagers, they're not necessarily bad.

Many parents would give just about anything for their teenage child to be home more often. A child who is less social but also happy and well-adjusted isn't one about whom parents should worry.

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Thursday, July 30, 2009

Parents: Don't Give Up on Runaway Teens

Teenagers runaway for a multitude of reasons. Some are trying to escape truly abusive and destructive homes. Others are simply frustrated, feeling like they can't meet their parents expectations; or perhaps they are dealing with something they don't feel they can share with their parents.

In a column in the Windsor Star, psychotherapist Barbara Burrows advised the mother of a teen runaway not to turn her back on her daughter:
Certainly parents will recognize how worried, guilty or upset they can feel about troubles with teenagers. Teenagers hide very well the fact that they usually feel as desperate as parents. Teens may even feel that they have ruined any hope that parents could ever love them again. ...

The more you can keep trying to reach her and approach this problem without getting too upset, the more you help her understand that whatever problems she faces, things are manageable. Teach her by your example, that through discussion, there is a solution to life's most difficult dilemmas.
Leaving home can be a traumatic experience for teens as well as parents. But responding to the problem in a calm, reasoned manner can help end the crisis and improve the substance and quality of the family members' relationships with each other.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Indiana Event to Benefit At-Risk Youth

On Saturday, Aug. 1, an Indiana dance group will host a fundraiser for a local charity. Members of The NRG Dance Co will be washing cars from 1 to 5 p.m., with proceeds going to benefit the organization Hopeful Tomorrow.
Hopeful Tomorrow is a national children's charity dedicated to providing disadvantaged and at-risk children the opportunity to pursue their passion and dreams in physical, cultural and fine arts programs. A creative and physical outlet, as well as a positive mentor, can make a huge difference in the life of an 'at-risk' child. (Source: The Indianapolis Star)
The event will take place at Texas Roadhouse on East U.S. Highway 36 in Avon, Indiana. More information is available at www.hopefultomorrow.org.

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Friday, July 24, 2009

Most Young People Outgrow Daily Headaches

Children who have headaches everyday will probably outgrow them by the time they are in their early 20s, according to new research from Taiwan. Eighty-eight percent of children who were studied outgrew their headaches.
  • Dr. Shuu Jian Wang of the Taipel Veterans Hospital followed 122 children, starting at ages 12 to 14 years old, for eight years.
  • All the children had daily tension-type headaches.
  • By the time they were 21 years old, just 12 percent were still having daily headaches.
  • Dr. Wang said no one knows why their headaches stopped.
Dr. Amy Goldstein, a neurologist at Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh, said the study is cause for hope among parents. "Even without a major intervention, the majority will get better," Goldstein said. "For a lot of my patients, they feel like the headache pain is never going to go away, but the message here is it can get better over time."

The study was published in the journal Neurology.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Teens Texting More, Sleeping Less and Struggling

Technology has many benefits, but it has its downfalls, too. Today, teenagers spend so much time texting, using video games, and chatting via the Internet that their normal patterns are being disrupted.
For some teens, so much technology has proven distracting and has interfered with their sleep, leading to health problems such as crankiness, headaches, weakened immune systems and impaired concentration. -- Source: Dulcinea Media
The best cure for sleep disorders and sleep-related problems is to turn off the cell phone, computer and video games at least an hour before bedtime, and encourage your teenager to do something else – like read.

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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

National Organization Asks for Help to Locate Missing Teen

A teenager from North Carolina has been missing for more than a year, and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children is asking for help in finding her:
Diana Hernandez Yanez, was 14 when she left her home on July 21, 2008. Neighbors told police that they saw her get into a red pickup truck that morning.

Friends say the truck, a red 2000 Chevrolet S-10 low-rider pickup, belonged to 19-year-old Andres Velasquez Tinoco, whom Diana reportedly met just a couple of weeks prior to her disappearance. (Source: The McDowell News)
Anyone who may have information about Yanez's whereabouts is asked to call the Marion Police Department at (828) 652-3231. Tips can remain anonymous.

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Friday, July 17, 2009

Study Questions Genetic Basis of Depression

An influential 26-year study of 847 individuals that ended in 2003 found that if people had a certain gene, they were more likely to become depressed after a traumatic life event such as bankruptcy or death of a loved one.

The same study found that if people had a different gene variant, they were more likely to go through such events without experiencing major depression. This study was widely accepted and became the basis of a belief that depression is an organic disorder that can be treated through medication.

Now a new study reports having found "no evidence of an association between the serotonin gene and depression," even if a person experiences a traumatic event. The new study, led by Dr. Neil Risch and Dr. Kathleen Merikangas, is an analysis of 14 previous studies.

In their report in the Journal of the American Medical Association, Drs. Risch and Merikangas indicated that they believe that the old study had flaws. They also wrote that the old study was widely accepted before it was widely duplicated.

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Wednesday, July 15, 2009

One in Four Suicides Involves Intoxication

Almost a quarter of all people who commit suicide were drunk when they took their lives, according to a new report from the U. S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Dr. Alex Crosby and his colleagues used data from 17 states that are enrolled in the National Violent Death Reporting System between 2005 through 2006, and found that 24 percent of suicides involved alcohol intoxication.

"The mixture of depression and alcohol abuse is highly volatile and potentially fatal," Dr. David Katz, Director of the Prevention Research Center at Yale University, said in a June 18 article by Steven Reinberg of HealthDay News. "Diligent, ongoing efforts to find and treat depression and to prevent excessive alcohol intake are needed so the two collide less often."

Other studies have established a strong connection between teen suicide and alcohol abuse. In February 2008, researchers with Georgia State University's Institute of Public Health reported that youth who begin drinking before age 13 are three times more likely to attempt suicide than are non-drinking peers.

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Monday, July 13, 2009

Helping Homeless Teens is Tradition for New Jersey Family

For some kids, following in dad’s footsteps means board meetings and corner offices. For Alex Siniari and his brothers, following their father put them on the streets and in other less-than-desirable locations, all in the effort to locate and identify homeless and runaway teens in and around Atlantic City, New Jersey.

A June 21 column by Monica Yant Kinney of the Philadelphia Inquirer told the story of the Siniari brothers and their father, Steve, who is an Albanian Orthodox priest:
For years, Father Steve, who lives in Haddonfield, took his kids to work with him. "I told my wife I was in the chapel," he says. "She never knew I was taking them into housing projects and hanging around prostitutes."

Mike, the oldest, became a history professor. Alex never finished college, drifting between bartending and selling cars. "Nothing I was doing had any meaning or value."

In 2005, Alex applied for a job at Covenant House secretly, not sure he wanted it or how his father would react. [Covenant House is a privately funded program that serves homeless teens and young adults. Father Steve has worked there for years].

Since then, the younger Siniari married a coworker and landed a promotion. Today, as outreach coordinator, Alex is technically his dad's boss.
"Father Steve knows the streets, the kids, the issues," Covenant House New Jersey site director Brian Nelson told the Inquirer. "I see him mentoring Alex to take over."

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Friday, July 10, 2009

Atlanta Program Reaches At-Risk Girls Through Drama

When it comes to at-risk or troubled teens, "acting out" is rarely a good thing. But for the past six years, an innovative program in Atlanta, Georgia, has given a new -- and hopeful -- meaning to that often angst-inspiring term.

In a June 18 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution article, writer Jamie Gumbrecht explained how a group of dedicated women help struggling girls get their lives back on track through the magic of drama:
Since Synchronicity Performance Group began its Playmaking for Girls program in 2002, it has put dozens of runaways, teen mothers, dropouts and abuse survivors on stage as performers. ...

They pore over short plays about bad boyfriends, great girlfriends, supportive grandmothers, an evil witch, a pit bull named Spike, and a white Persian cat named Fluffy. They're hard stories about loss, parenthood and juvenile justice, but they almost always have happy endings.

Each girl is in at least two plays, and she has to mold each character's identity, filling in the gaps left by teenage playwrights.
According to the program's website, Playmaking for Girls is "a community outreach program, dedicated to engaging young women in the creation of theatre as a tool for creative expression, community healing and personal growth." The program consists of four components -- an afterschool program, detention center workshops, satellite workshops, and the public performance.

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Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Fears of Early Death Prevalent Among Teens

One in seven teenagers, or about 15 percent, believe that they have only a 50 percent chance of living to age 35 -- a fear that experts have associated with greater risk-taking.

Teams who share this pessimistic attitude tend to engage in dangerous behaviors such as attempting suicide, using illegal drugs, getting into fights that require medical care, engaging in unprotected sex.

The results of these behaviors include being arrested, falling behind in school, experiencing developmental delays, and contracting diseases including HIV/AIDS.

These findings are the result of a new study from the University of Minnesota:
  • Dr. Wagman Borowsky and his colleagues studied 20,594 teenagers in the seventh through 12th grades.
  • Dr. Borowsky's team interviewed the teens periodically to obtain their views on personal mortality and to find out the degree to which they engaged in risky behaviors.
  • Minority youth tended to be more pessimistic about how long they would survive.
The study appeared in the journal Pediatrics.

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Monday, July 6, 2009

Irritability in Children May Be Symptom of Bipolar Disorder

Doctors should consider irritability as a symptom of bipolar disorder in children, according to a new study from Bradley Hospital and the Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University:
  • Dr. Jeffrey Hunt studied 361 children ages seven to 17 years old, when they were in the manic stage of bipolar disorder.
  • He classified their symptoms into elation-only, irritable-only or elation-irritable.
  • Only 10 percent of these children fell into the irritable-only category, and elation-only was 15 percent.
  • The vast majority (75 percent) were in the elation-irritable category.
"Diagnosing children with bipolar disorder is challenging," Dr. Hunt said. "One of the chief controversies is whether irritability should be included among the criteria for the diagnosis because it can overlap with a number of other psychiatric disorders such as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Our findings confirm that irritable-only mania is uncommon, but it does exist -- particularly in younger children -- and should be considered in a bipolar diagnosis."

The number of children diagnosed with bipolar disorder has increased dramatically over the last decade. Bipolar disorder is characterized by dramatic mood swings.

Dr. Hunt's study appeared in the Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry.

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Friday, July 3, 2009

Cycling Legend Rides to Help Men who Survived Childhood Sexual Abuse

Tomorrow (Saturday, July 4), seven-time winner Lance Armstrong will make a much ballyhooed return to the Tour de France when the race's prologue begins in Monaco.

About a month later, another U.S. cycling legend will hop back onto his bike for a ride that may not garner as many headlines, but which may increase awareness and assistance for a pervasive problem in American society: the sexual abuse of boys.

On Aug. 8 in southern California, Greg Lemond (who twice topped the Tour podium) will lead "Le Tour de Montecito," a fundraising ride for 1in6, an organization that is dedicated to helping men who endured unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood.

The following is from the organization's website:
Researchers estimate that 1 in 6 men have experienced unwanted or abusive sexual experiences before age 16. This is likely a low estimate, since it doesn't include noncontact experiences, which can also have lasting negative effects.

If you've had such an experience, or think you might have, you are not alone.
If you wonder whether such an experience may be connected to some difficulties or challenges in your life now, you are not alone. ...

Our mission also includes serving girlfriends, wives, partners, family members and friends by providing information and support resources on the web.
"I know first-hand how the pain and shame of having been abused as a child can affect one's life," LeMond wrote in a welcome letter on the 1in6 website. "In looking back over my own life, I can tell you that no joy has been greater than being with my wife and children without the 'dark cloud' of shame and guilt that my childhood abuse caused me."

Sexual abuse survivors often endure long-lasting emotional trauma, which without treatment can have effects that range from disruptive to devastating.

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Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Suicide Risk Doubles Among Teens Whose Families Move Frequently

It's no secret that moving is as stressful (if not more so) for children as it is for parents. But a new study has found that it may be far more harmful that previously thought.

The degree to which frequent moves can inflict psychological damage on young people was the topic of a June 26 article by MSNBC.com contributor Linda Carroll:
Psychologists have known for years that moves can be distressing for kids. But a new study shows that the impact on some adolescents may be far more devastating than anyone thought. The study, published in the Archives of Psychiatry, found that kids aged 11 to 17 were twice as likely to attempt suicide if their families moved three or more times compared to those who had never moved.

And, if the family moved more than 10 times, the children were four times as likely to attempt suicide compared to those who had never moved.

For the new study, researchers looked at data from 4,160 Danish children who were brought to hospitals after attempting suicide, as well as 79 who had succeeded in their suicide attempts. These children, all between the ages of 11 and 17, were compared to 124,800 adolescents who had not made suicide attempts.
"Adolescence is an inherently turbulent time for children, and moves may be more traumatic in some cases," the study's lead author, Dr. Ping Qin of the University of Aarhus in Aarhus, Denmark, told MSNBC.

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