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High Self-Esteem in Kids Leads to More Aggression

High self-esteem in children may increase their aggression toward others when they feel ashamed, according to a new study from Utrecht University in the Netherlands and the University of Michigan.

Researchers tested 163 children 10 to 13 years old for self-esteem, and then had them play in a fake video game tournament. Some were randomly selected to be "shamed." The team told that group that they were playing against poor players and that their scores would appear on a website that everyone could see. The narcissistic children in the study who felt ashamed became aggressive.

"Narcissists seem highly motivated to create and maintain a grandiose sense of self," said co-author Brad Bushman, a psychologist at the University of Michigan. This finding opposes conventional wisdom that children with high self-esteem are better at handling criticism and insults.

This study appears in the journal Child Development.

Labels: violence, self-esteem, agression

Posted By: Aspen Education Group