Though the holidays are officially over, many children and teenagers are still recovering from extended periods of time with family members. The holidays are hard for teenagers who come from extremely dysfunctional homes. They will likely to be looking to teachers, counselors, school administrators and other adult influencers for advice and guidance.

"For children who attempt to regulate problem drinking or to stop family fights, teach them that young people are not equipped to solve serious family problems. The more you can lighten the heavy responsibilities that these children carry, the more you may be able to help lessen the depression, despair or withdrawal that the child experiences."

It's also helpful to remind teens that the holiday images conveyed by advertising and marketing campaigns are unrealistic. Very few (if any) families have that picture perfect holiday celebration. Talk about this, and help the teen develop more realistic expectations for future family gatherings.

The Academy at Swift River is a private high school for teens in New England. If your teen would benefit from a structured, therapeutic boarding school environment, then the Academy at Swift River is a great choice.

Labels: depression, influences, trauma