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Monday, December 31, 2007

Dealing with the Abuse Cycle

Child sexual abuse used to be an extremely taboo subject. But more people are willing to talk, and so are more children – which is a necessary first step if the child is going to heal from such a traumatic event.
"'Sometimes it can be very intense when a child is explaining a story, some of the allegations society can't even fathom,' said [Kristi] Turner. 'It's hard for me being in this profession being used to heard those stories, but people who aren't in this profession would be totally shocked by some of the things that we hear.'"
Children who are sexually abused are at an increased risk of developing eating disorders, abusing drugs or alcohol, failing in school and becoming victims of domestic violence. They need to know that it's ok to tell someone, so that they can get help.

A private boarding school, like the Academy at Swift River, can offer teens a safe environment where they can focus on academics and personal growth. Visit SwiftRiver.com for more information about their therapeutic boarding school program for troubled teens.

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Saturday, December 29, 2007

Girls Vow Virginity to Their Fathers at Popular New "Purity Dances"

Girls in all 48 states are attending "purity dances" with their fathers. The dances can be elaborate affairs with prom dresses, big dinners and orchestras, but a common feature is having the girls pledge to remain virgins until they marry. At some purity balls, fathers give their daughters gold purity bands to wear as reminders. Daughters give their fathers gold keys to hold until their wedding days, when fathers give the keys to their new sons-in-law.

Some oppose the dances as a form of abstinence-only education, which several recent academic studies concluded were ineffective. Other objections are coming from feminists.
"These events represent an idea that there is something about female sexuality that needs to be controlled by dominant men in the household," Professor Mary Zeiss Stange of Skidmore College told the Chicago Tribune. "That relates to a patriarchal position in the evangelical movement that not only defines female sexuality but females themselves as property. ... The daughter becomes her father's property until he hands her off to her husband."
Proponents of purity dances argue that other studies prove that girls who spend time with their fathers are more likely to complete college and have higher self-esteem and less likely to seek approval from boyfriends.

The first purity ball began in 1997 at a Christian ministry in Colorado, Generations of Light. Randy Carlson, father of five daughters and two sons, said he never expected to start a trend.

"It was birthed out of our home, not the abstinence movement," he said. "It is a fatherhood event, not a virginity or abstinence event."

At an all girls school like Copper Canyon Academy in Arizona teenage girls are free of common distractions like boys and sex which allows them the opportunity for personal growth and academic achievement.

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Thursday, December 27, 2007

Screen Teens for Drug and Alcohol Use every Time they See a Doctor

Family doctors and pediatricians may want to screen teenagers for drug and alcohol abuse whenever teens go to their doctors and not just during routine check-ups, according to a new study from the Children's Hospital in Boston.

Dr. Knight and his colleagues found that 23% of 2,133 teens in his study screened positive when they were at the doctor because of illness or injury. Only 11% screened positive during routine check-ups.
"Screening should occur whenever there is an opportunity and not just during well-child visits," said Dr. John Knight, director of the Center for Adolescent Substance Abuse Research.

Doctors argue that there is not enough time during a typical fifteen-minute doctor's visit to do such assessments. Dr. Knight counters by saying his six-question test takes only a few minutes.

This study appears in the Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine.

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Monday, December 24, 2007

CDC Reports Increased Number of Unmarried Teenaged Mothers

Birth rates among unmarried girls ages 15 to 19 years old increased for the first time in fifteen years, from 40 per thousand in 2005 to 42 per thousand in 2006. That translates to about 20,000 more babies, according to the Center for Disease Control.

In 1970, unwed teenagers accounted for more than half of all unwed mothers. Today that number is one-quarter, because of an increase in births among unwed women in their 20s and 30s.

The CDC commented that the increase could be just a statistical blip, but noted that the incidence of sexually transmitted diseases among teenagers is also rising.

Youth Care, a residential treatment program for troubled teens, offers a program for pregnant teens where they can continue to earn school credits and learn how to take care of themselves and their child.

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Saturday, December 22, 2007

"I Cut Myself to Feel Better"

In recent years, cutting has gained more attention as teachers, parents, and psychologists began to realize that this form of self-mutilation was more common than many had believed. They've also found that it affects a very different group of kids than many had believed.
"Recent research by Dr. Madeline Levine, an American psychologist, found that children from affluent homes... were three times more likely to suffer anxiety and depression than ordinary teenagers. Bullying and anxiety about academic performance are cited as common reasons and the stress may manifest itself in anorexia, bulimia - or, increasingly, self-harming."
In years past, self-harm often took the form of hair pulling or eating disorders. But now, teachers and parents are seeing more kids who cut. As a result of the new data, the medical community has recommended that additional studies be done to determine which treatments are the most effective. Education is also considered key; so that parents and teachers know how to respond and kids feel comfortable telling someone they need help.

Cutting and other risky behaviors, such as teen drug use, are often symptoms of greater issues. Island View, an adolescent residential treatment center in Utah, can help by assessing your child's needs and then creating a treatment plan.

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Friday, December 21, 2007

Teen Dating Violence Leads to Risky Health Behavior

Teens that have been abused by dating partners are more likely to develop risky behaviors like eating disorders and suicidal thoughts. A team of researchers from the University of Minnesota at Minneapolis compared the behaviors of boys and girls who had experienced dating violence with those who hadn't.
"Both boys and girls who had experienced dating violence were more likely to display three or more of 10 behavioral and psychological health problems including binge eating, cigarette smoking, alcohol or marijuana use, depressive symptoms and low self-esteem, the researchers found. The relationship was particularly strong for girls."
Dr. Diann Ackard suggested that parents ask questions about teens' relationships; particularly how they feel when they're with certain people – which can help determine whether the teen is at risk of being abused.

Copper Canyon Academy is a residential treatment center for troubled girls. By offering accredited academics and therapy, Copper Canyon helps girls get back on track.

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Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Teens May Regret Party Pictures on Social Websites like Facebook

Adults who work with young people are increasingly concerned about materials they are posting on websites like Facebook and MySpace.

Hundreds of college and high school students are posting pictures of themselves drunk, vomiting and urinating, often half-dressed or naked in settings like toilet stalls. Some of them include their complete names and the names of their schools.
"They're not a thoughtful bunch, by and large," said Robert Carothers, president of the University of Rhode Island and a former member of the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse.

He and others point out that potential employers can view at these postings, which often last for years on web searches. Carothers says that he has told students, "Look, these pictures are evidence you're doing something illegal."


However, many on Facebook have the attitude of the anonymous poster who wrote, "It's just something fun. You need to be able to laugh at yourself sometimes."

College binge drinking remains a serious problem on most campuses. The Center on Alcohol and Substance Abuse reported this year that almost 40% of college students participate in binge drinking at least once a year.

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Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Teen Drug Use Down

This year's Monitoring the Future survey has found that drug use among adolescents is continuing to decline. Reported use of some drugs declined significantly.
"Annual prevalence for the three grades combined [8th, 10th, and 12th] did fall significantly this year for both Ritalin and methamphetamine. Ritalin is a prescription amphetamine drug used to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Its use outside of medical supervision was first measured in the study in 2001; it has been falling since then, with total declines of between 25 percent and 42 percent at each grade level."
Though use of many drugs has decreased, some - unfortunately - have increased. Over-the-counter cold medication and ecstasy both increased, though neither increase was significant. Monitoring the Future is an annual study sponsored by the National Institute on Drug Abuse and conducted by the University of Michigan.

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Monday, December 17, 2007

Absent Parents can Cause Violent Kids

Nineteen-year-old Robert Hawkins, who opened fire in an Omaha, Nebraska mall this week, spent most of his life moving and out of the foster care system. Psychologist warn that a lack of parental involvement in a child's life can make a child feel like he has no one to turn to, and affects how teens respond to negative attention. A lack of healthy emotional bonding with a parent hinders a child's ability to view people as more than just objects.
"[Psychologist Dr. Louis] Mortillaro said some warning signs for potential violent outbursts in children include feelings of not fitting in, kids who are teased constantly, those who are sent to the office for harming classmates or animals and those who are not afraid to act on their violent tendencies"
Parents are encouraged to develop appropriate, healthy emotional bonds with their kids, even if the parents are separated, divorced or never married at all.

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Saturday, December 15, 2007

Child Advocacy Groups Try to Keep MySpace, Facebook Out of Schools

Should schools provide computer access to social network websites like Facebook and MySpace? Despite the results of a recent study that says such websites can be educational, child advocacy groups and some educators believe it's better to keep them out of schools.

An online survey of 1,277 students ages 9 to 17 years old found that 69% use social network sites to talk about education or homework online.

Some educators and child advocacy groups point out that this study was done by the National School Board Administration, which is partially sponsored by the owners of MySpace and Facebook. The report from the Administration said "social networking sites are deeply embedded in the lifestyles of teens," and recommended that teachers find ways "to harness their educational value."

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Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Media Violence Could be Considered a Public Health Threat

Children exposed to violence in video games, television and movies are more likely to be violent both short- and long-term, according to a study from the University of Michigan.

Dr. Rowell Huesmann compared the public health effect of media violence to exposure to cigarette smoke, asbestos and lead. He examined 41 media violence studies done between 1963 and 2007 and found that exposure raises the chances that a person will commit violent acts immediately and in the future.

He explained that the mass media has made violence available to a broad population.
"It is not just kids in bad neighborhoods or with bad friends who are exposed to bad things when they go out on the street," he explained. "A 'virtual' bad street is easily available to most youth now."
This study appears in the Journal of Adolescent Health.

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Monday, December 10, 2007

Media Adds to Teen Promiscuity

An assistant professor of nursing at Florida Atlantic University recently completed a study intended to determine how much the media really influences young girls. Josie Weiss interviewed 20 girls ages 14 to 18 who are incarcerated at VisionQuest - an intervention program for at-risk teens.
"The teens had all been sexually active, and many had unplanned and unprotected sex. While they said their parents and teachers encouraged them to make responsible sexual choices, the sexually explicit messages [in the media] were more powerful in shaping their attitudes."
Though Weiss conducted her study with teens that have criminal histories, she's certain the results would be the same among the teen population at large.

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Saturday, December 8, 2007

Having Sex at an Early Age Does Not Lead to Delinquency

When Paige Harden, a doctoral candidate in psychology at the University of Virginia, read a study last year that said early sex leads to juvenile delinquency, it did not sound right to her.

Using the same data from February 2007's Ohio State University study, she found that teens who have consensual sex in their early teens or even preteen years are actually less likely to engage in delinquent behaviors later on.

Harden went through data from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, a federal survey of 7,000 children in grades 7 through 12. She took out the data on 534 same-sex twins included in that study because by using twins, she eliminated genetic and socio-economic factors that skew research results.

Twins who had sex at younger ages than their twin brothers or sisters did not mean that have better odds of becoming delinquents. In fact, the odds were actually somewhat lower.
"I wouldn't be focusing on early sex to lower the rates of delinquency," Harden said.
Her study appears in the Journal of Youth and Adolescence.

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Friday, December 7, 2007

Home Life Linked to Early Maturation

'Tis the Season (or nearly the season) for heavy marketing of all that's "in vogue" in teen fashion, pastimes, and overall trends. The short skirts, low-cut shirts and singers and dolls that make them popular are touted as the main reasons many of our young girls are growing up so fast. But recent research has pointed a finger in a different direction: toward home.
"New research released last week in the journal Child Development found evidence that a family's harmony - how it interacts, addresses conflict and offers support and involvement - correlates with how soon a girl reaches puberty…Girls who hit puberty earlier are more at risk for mood disorders, substance abuse, teen pregnancy and even reproductive cancers as a result of early sexual activity."
The study tracked 227 families and found a marked difference in how soon a girl reached maturity based on parental involvement, stability of resources, and the family's ability to appropriately resolve differences.

If your teenage daughter is heading down the wrong path - either by experimenting with drugs, alcohol, or sex - get her the help she needs at Copper Canyon Academy. Copper Canyon is an all girls school that offers therapy in addition to college prep academics.

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Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Consider Spring Break Alternatives

A Coalition for Drug-Free Youth in Long Island, New York has taken a strong stand against spring break trips that aren't chaperoned or endorsed by a school or other organization. Citing increases in violence, arrests and other dangerous activity, the Coalition has requested that parents consider safer alternatives for their kids.
"The U.S. Consulate in Merida, Mexico, whose territory includes Cancun, says that during the eight-week spring break period in 2002, U.S. students accounted for two deaths, 360 arrests, four injuries that required medical evacuations out of the area, one rape, 495 reports of lost or stolen property and 504 'general welfare inquiries'."
Similar statistics are found at other popular spring break locations, like Daytona Beach. Some of the alternatives suggested by the Coalition include: family events or vacations, trips with other families, and taking the student to visit potential colleges.

Also, learn about alternatives to traditional summer camps too - instead of sitting out, or worse - getting into trouble - have your child spend the summer working on themselves. Visit www.alternativesummercamps.com for more information.

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Monday, December 3, 2007

More College Students Struggle with Mental Illness

A 2004 survey conducted by the American College Health Association found that nearly 15 percent of all college students meet the criteria for clinical depression. Another seven percent have been diagnosed with anxiety disorders.
"Sophomore Taylor Evans believes that 'the stress and constant worry about keeping grades up and passing classes combined with having to struggle to figure out what it is that you want to do for the rest of your life' are primary causes behind these illnesses."
The American Psychiatric Association, on its website, offers suggestions for helping young college students avoid things like depression and anxiety. Getting enough sleep, sticking to a regular schedule, and maintaining a proper diet are just a few of their tips.

College students who need a healthy, structured living environment can find their place at NorthStar Center. Located in Bend, Oregon, NorthStar offers an aftercare program for older teens and young adults.

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Saturday, December 1, 2007

Teachers Hope to Aid Troubled Teens

The Medford School District in Oregon has the state's second-highest homeless student population. A teacher and film producer are joining forces to try and offer help and hope to this often-forgotten group of kids.
"Steve Pine, regional coordinator for career and technical education at the Southern Oregon Education Service District, and Sam Baldoni, owner of Inspired Films Inc., hope to launch the Oregon Youth Academy for grades nine through 12 by fall 2009."
The academy will be able to take in 200 to 400 students at a time and will teach video production along with more standard curriculum. The hope is that they can teach at-risk kids how to apply academics to something they find interesting.

Mount Bachelor Academy, a boarding school in Oregon, offers a college prep curriculum in addition to a therapeutic and emotional growth program. They are also the first boarding school in the country to offer an adoption-specific curriculum. Learn more at www.mtba.com.

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